Hello, my friends!
How valuable is your relationship?
Are you glad that you’re in this relationship?
Stay with these questions for an extra minute – go below the surface answer.
I had a fun conversation with a client today where she said,
“I asked myself why I value being in a strong, sexy relationship and…I…well…I wasn’t entirely sure.”
I congratulated her for being willing to dig deeper than the surface answer.
There might be a good first answer (“yeah, sure, I want this!”) but it’s good to slow down from time to time and see what else you can discover.
Why do you want more sex and intimacy in your relationship?
Why do you want to be in this relationship at all?
Let me offer this reason.
Investing in improving your relationship changes you.
You become someone different in the process even if your partner does not adjust their behavior.
So the question “How valuable is your relationship?” can evolve into “How much do you value the person you can become through the experience of this relationship?”
The relationship is for your growth beyond “getting needs met.”
Your life is for you. You wake up everyday to experience, give, enjoy, overcome.
This is your life, your beautiful opportunity to see what you can make of it.
And this relationship is for you to experience more of what life has on offer.
Are you in it to win it? 🙂
Reflect on these questions.
See how they shift your perspective on why you value your relationship.
See if you stand a little taller taking ownership for being the best partner you can be!
And if you need help…well..that’s what I do!
Love you madly,
LisaP.S. Now enrolling 1-on-1 clients to start in June. Click here to sign up for a free mini-session to see whether now is the time to accelerate your relationship’s growth and intimacy.